There are a few types of guys in a single girls life. Some are date-able, some we pine over and others we avoid at all costs.
There's the guy you want but can't have. You flirt with him, you exchange looks with him, you joke and laugh with him, you talk with him often but for some reason or another he is unavailable to you. Maybe he has a girlfriend of his own. Maybe he is unattainable because of the position he is in. But he is off the date potential list for some reason. Sometimes as a single girl, you let this man out of your mind and other times you make a game out of flirting with him. But always know that he will never be your boyfriend, so that is all it is....a game.
Then there is the guy who thinks of you only as a friend. He hangs out with you, calls you, texts you, talks to you but that is as far as it will ever go. Even if you want it to go further, it never will. He just wants you as a friend for whatever reason. The more you try to date him, the further he pushes you away, so eventually you give up and accept that he is your acquaintance, but really you are hoping that he will change his mind one day and fall head over heels for you.
There is the guy who you think of as only a friend. He is a nice guy. You know he is a good person and probably would make a great boyfriend but for some reason you just aren't attracted to him. It's confusing to a single girl because he is a great catch. It would make sense to want this guy with the kind personality who is super polite and opens doors for you but you just aren't attracted to him and have no explanation for it.
Then there is the guy who you avoid at all costs. He thinks he is God's gift to women and is only after you for the sex. He has confidence in some things but not in everything. He will flirt with every girl in the place in hopes that one of them accepts his offer. He may be the desperate one. He may be the cocky one. All you know is that he is the one that you can't stand to be around. You try to become suddenly busy when he walks in the room. Your statements are short with him in hopes that he loses interest in the conversation. Sometimes you don't even know why you hate him, but you do and you can't wait until he walks away and leaves you alone.
Then there is the guy who walks into your life and changes it. You may not like him when you first meet him or you may want him as soon as you lay eyes on him but one day you'll realize that you can't live without him. That is the man of your dreams, the love of your life. And we all hope that someday we will meet that special person that will change our life for the better.
Sunday, December 7, 2008
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